After all your research, you come to the point where you have to make the decision, "Is a Sigma Alpha Mu going to be the right for me?" Truthfully, it's always been the basis of rush: to match the man with the right fraternity. YOU have to be willing to accept these men as YOUR brothers and they have to be willing to call YOU, "brother." Decisions will follow you wherever you go in life. Joining a fraternity is no exception. Throughout the country, college students are pondering the question about accepting membership into a fraternity. This is a lifetime decision. Your brothers will be all across the country and the world.